Who We Are |
Married to a MEM since 1998. Raising 7 children in a rural community. I comment on the blog as DeeDee, a nickname. I cannot give my name because my Father in Law is vicious and will find a way to sue me if he finds out. He is filled with hate because I defy him. I refuse to be under his control. He drove my husband to become a surrogate husband for his mother. He never found anything good to say about him. I do not trust him and do not want to take a chance. I don't mind if people know who I am, I am just not ready to take my dysfunctional in-laws on publicly.
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Our History |
Married to a MEM since 1998, like I said before. You will read what I researched and all the AHA moments I had since learning about MEM. I have never seen a MEM mother change, they will not let go of their son. Sons have a chance to change but I rarely see that. Usually it ends in two separate lives or a divorce. My MEM chose to change. It took years of counseling. Years of hard work. years of frustration. Years of longing. Years of loneliness. But he was successful. Still struggling a little but after 8 years of counseling and almost 0 contact with his family of origin, he has turned out to be a good guy I can work with. Would I do it again? I highly doubt it. Was it worth it? I think it will be in a few more years. If you need a place to unload, to find friendship and understanding, you came to the right place. We are all here to help and uplift.
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