I reminded him that he was so in love with our office help before. In my mother tongue there is a saying when someone is so blindly in love, we say they wag their tail around them. That is what I was seeing, he was wagging his tail around this woman every day. He would complain about me in front of her every day. He put himself in a position of the victim who has to put up with his unorganized wife as the office wasn't well organized and all of a sudden it was my fault. I heard several times as he complained about me.
He asked her to be a model for some products I had developed. It was the most disgusting photo shoot I was ever a witness of. I was there to make sure the product was used correctly and he wagged his tail around her like he was some hot photographer shooting pictures of this hot model. I about puked out my breakfast. Not only because of the way he acted but she really wasn't a hot model.
To then deny that he would enjoy having more wives felt totally dishonest. He would have proposed to her if he could have, he was obviously in love. I remember knowing it but not caring, I figured we were done anyway. His reason for not proposing to her was that he did not want to break up her family. He didn't care about his own wife and children. Discarding us would have been easy or making us marginal as we were already. Knowing what I know, he would be glad to practice polygamy because a MEM doesn't really have commitment to his partner, his commitment is to the mother. He likes a wife for sexual pleasures, not as companionship and polygamy would allow for more of that.