You might be married to a MEM if....
- your spouse is always privately talking on the phone with his mother.
- You spouse makes plans for the family with his mother without your input.
- Your spouse calls his mother with news that usually would be shared with a spouse first.
- Your spouse blows up over small things, especially after talking to his mother.
- Your spouse is criticizing you and comparing you with his “perfect” mother.
- Your spouse allows his mother to rearrange your house, telling you not to be so uptight.
- Your spouse insists all Holidays, and free weekends are spend at his mothers.
- Your spouse still sleeps and eats at his mother's house often.
- Your spouse runs to his mother to fix anything, anytime she calls.
- Your spouse gets angry when you don't take his mother's whining seriously.
- Your spouse calls you names and is angry when you bring up anything related to his mother.
- Your spouse gives his family of origin permission to verbally abuse you and put you down.
- You are expected to apologize for things that you didn't do.
- You always feel like an outsider in the family.