I just received pictures from a woman on her 28 wedding anniversary to an enmeshed man and narcissist. A way to visualize the hopes, dreams, and promises made years ago were never honest and real. It was all to satisfy his and his families control over her, not a mutually respectful relationship. Never was. It took this long to realize nothing will ever change. If you are in a relationship with a MEM, if there are no changes after you bring it up and demand counseling and change, and nothing changes, don't wait 28 years, leave before you are so depleted that you can hardly think of how to leave. Burn your past and move on to something happier, even if that means going it alone.
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Tuesday
6/14/2018 04:10:26 am
Love this picture. But 28 years is a very long time to suffer abuse from a narcissistic mem. Enjoy your freedom from the toxic mess of a family.
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Edelweiss
6/20/2018 05:04:27 am
I send hugs, strength and love to this woman.
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